[common] Switch to boost::unordered_flat containers (#4326)

Replaces all instances of ankerl's unordered map/set with boost's
`unordered_flat_*` classes. This uses std::hash since boost::hash is
actually a lot slower.

Also adds an abstraction layer in `Common` so future changes are quicker
and easier.

Other implementation details:
- ankerl provided hash specializations for tuple and pair, so those were
  ported here
- std::erase_if doesn't work on boost, so just used the ADL'd erase_if

This should be about equal or superior performance as unordered_dense for everything except iteration.

Signed-off-by: crueter <crueter@eden-emu.dev>

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Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/4326
Reviewed-by: Lizzie and Samuel <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: MaranBr <maranbr@eden-emu.dev>

src/common/container/unordered_set.h

@@ -0,0 +1,16 @@
+// SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2026 Eden Emulator Project
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-3.0-or-later
+
+#pragma once
+
+#include "common/container_hash.h"
+
+#include <boost/unordered/unordered_flat_set.hpp>
+
+namespace Common {
+
+template <class Key, class Hash = std::hash<Key>, class Pred = std::equal_to<Key>,
+          class Allocator = std::allocator<Key>>
+using unordered_set = boost::unordered::unordered_flat_set<Key, Hash, Pred, Allocator>;
+
+}