[tools, cmake] refactor: update/hash check scripts, use tags for some more deps, proper CPMUtil separation (#2666)

Uses tags for a bunch of deps that can use them

Also adds a bunmch of scripts to tools/cpm, notably for checking hashes
and checking for updates.

TODO for the future:
- CI target to check hashes
- Weekly CI to check for updates

Need to get that other CI runner up

additional stuff

- Ports gentoo fixes
- makes solaris work (TODO: sdl2)
- way better docs
- properly separates CPMUtil as a standalone project

Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/2666
Reviewed-by: Lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: MaranBr <maranbr@eden-emu.dev>

tools/cpm-fetch-all.sh

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-#!/bin/bash -ex
+#!/bin/sh -e
 
 # SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2025 Eden Emulator Project
 # SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-3.0-or-later
@@ -6,6 +6,12 @@
 # SPDX-FileCopyrightText: 2025 crueter
 # SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-3.0-or-later
 
-LIBS=$(find . src -maxdepth 3 -name cpmfile.json -exec jq -j 'keys_unsorted | join(" ")' {} \; -printf " ")
+# provided for workflow compat
 
-tools/cpm-fetch.sh $LIBS
+# shellcheck disable=SC1091
+. tools/cpm/common.sh
+
+chmod +x tools/cpm/fetch.sh
+
+# shellcheck disable=SC2086
+tools/cpm/fetch.sh $LIBS