[*] change all std::unordered_map and std::unordered_set into ankerl::unordered_dense::map/set variants (#3442)

mainly doing this to reduce memory footprint; we all know how nice ankerl::unordered_dense is

in theory 4x faster - in practice these maps arent that "hot" anyways so not likely to have much perf gained

i just want to reduce mem fragmentation to ease my porting process, plus it helps other platforms as well (ahem weak Mediatek devices) :)

Signed-off-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>

Co-authored-by: Caio Oliveira <caiooliveirafarias0@gmail.com>
Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/3442
Reviewed-by: DraVee <dravee@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: CamilleLaVey <camillelavey99@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Co-committed-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>

src/dynarmic/CMakeLists.txt

@@ -118,6 +118,7 @@ endif()
 
 find_package(fmt 8 CONFIG)
 find_package(mcl 0.1.12 REQUIRED)
+find_package(unordered_dense REQUIRED)
 
 if ("arm64" IN_LIST ARCHITECTURE OR DYNARMIC_TESTS)
     find_package(oaknut 2.0.1 CONFIG)