[*] change all std::unordered_map and std::unordered_set into ankerl::unordered_dense::map/set variants (#3442)

mainly doing this to reduce memory footprint; we all know how nice ankerl::unordered_dense is

in theory 4x faster - in practice these maps arent that "hot" anyways so not likely to have much perf gained

i just want to reduce mem fragmentation to ease my porting process, plus it helps other platforms as well (ahem weak Mediatek devices) :)

Signed-off-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>

Co-authored-by: Caio Oliveira <caiooliveirafarias0@gmail.com>
Reviewed-on: https://git.eden-emu.dev/eden-emu/eden/pulls/3442
Reviewed-by: DraVee <dravee@eden-emu.dev>
Reviewed-by: CamilleLaVey <camillelavey99@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>
Co-committed-by: lizzie <lizzie@eden-emu.dev>

src/hid_core/frontend/emulated_controller.h

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-// SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2025 Eden Emulator Project
+// SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2026 Eden Emulator Project
 // SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-3.0-or-later
 
 // SPDX-FileCopyrightText: Copyright 2021 yuzu Emulator Project
@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@
 #include <memory>
 #include <mutex>
 #include <shared_mutex>
-#include <unordered_map>
+#include <ankerl/unordered_dense.h>
 #include <vector>
 
 #include "common/common_types.h"
@@ -636,7 +636,7 @@ private:
     mutable std::shared_mutex callback_mutex;
     mutable std::shared_mutex npad_mutex;
     mutable std::shared_mutex connect_mutex;
-    std::unordered_map<int, ControllerUpdateCallback> callback_list;
+    ankerl::unordered_dense::map<int, ControllerUpdateCallback> callback_list;
     int last_callback_key = 0;
 
     // Stores the current status of all controller input